“We’re still living with the ideology of compromise, not with the ideology of recognition”
– Dipin Damodharan
Who is a man? Who is a woman? Does it really matter because in the end we all are human beings. Gender Equality has become more like a dream. The more we think about making it a reality, the more it seems distant and impossible to achieve. Gender Equality means equal rights and opportunities to all the genders irrelevant of their sex.
The Society is one of the crucial factors as to why there is such a huge divide between man and woman . This disruptive and pessimistic notion is one of the reasons our nation has such a low progressive rate. Some cities have started recognising women as a valuable person and not just an object .
Traditionally women are still believed to simply cook food and raise children while men are supposed to earn the bread and butter for the families.
It is about time to break these narrow, traditional amd stereotypical views on the roles of men and women.
Both men amd women should respect each other and regard the other genders in high esteem.
For the nation to make progress, the mindset of the citizens has to take a positive and broader outlook about the roles of men and women.
A real man treats a woman as an equal and a partner, rather than as an object. A real man is allowed to feel, to emote, to love, to cry and to have his weak moments. A real man is human, and like all humans he can be both strong as well as vulnerable. The rules for masculinity have changed.
A real woman is smart, strong, funny, confident and more than what she wears or what she looks like. A woman of substance will always treat a man as her equal if she receives the same amount of respect.
As sad it is, a woman needs to work twice as hard to be considered half as good as men on the same or lower level.
The day the world realizes what the women are capable of all the chauvinistic men will be as good as ashes. Those men who think that women is just for managing a house it is time to show them.
“I find it strange that practicing law in a co mfortable well-heated office is considered too demanding an occupation for women, yet laboring from dawn’s first light in crowded, drafty, ill-lit sweatshops is not.”
-Shirley Tallman.
As long as these Misogynistic thoughts are not eradicated , a world where men and women are equally valued would be as good as just a night’s dream. Nothing is impossible since the word itself says I M Possible.
“No matter how dark the cloud, there is always a thin, silver lining, and that is what we must look for. The silver lining will come, if not to us then to next generation or the generation after that. And maybe with that generation the lining will no longer be as thin”- Wangari Maathai
I hope this ain’t a very bad start. Constructive criticism is always welcome. I hope to improve as I keep on writing with the suggestions I get.
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